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10 Ways To Keep A Relationship Working

1. Communication - discuss the events that are causing the challenges in your life. Talk about what can be done to improve the situation as well as the pros and cons to the solutions you have each suggested. Keep the lines of communication open at all times for one another.

2. Honesty - Always be honest about your feelings. When you buff a situation with dishonesty just to get through it without too much confrontation or emotional hurt either on your part or your partner's, the problems will continue to linger in the back of your mind and may eventually explode in a sudden burst of anger directed towards your partner which can easily lead to a chain of negative events that can make the original issue seem petty. So keep it real.

3. Trust - trust in your partner and trust in yourself. You must trust in your mate's feelings and suggestions. Do not begin to question your partner's intentions during this time of more genuine issues that need to be dealt with. Trust in yourself to discuss the issues from your heart so your partner knows you are as much determined to find a solution as he or she is.

4. Acceptance - It is very important to accept each other's different opinions. You do not need to agree with one another, but accept each other's ideas and suggestions as a possible solution. Also, bring in your honesty at this point. State that you do not agree, but you are willing to hear them out. No two minds work the same, but together they may find one's strengths may help the other's weaknesses, and vice versa.

5. Compromise - As state above, no two minds work the same; however, compromise it the most powerful tool a couple can use to keep their relationship strong and functional. You each may have your own ideas, but when you combine them, the solution to any current problems will surface quicker than if you do not work together.

6. Step Back - If things get hot and friction begins to effect your communication, step back and give each other a breather. Take a break to rethink what needs to be said. Many times hind-sight is 20/20, therefore, if you take a break, you may be able to re-organize your thoughts and get back to communicating with a clearer mind. Do not get to the point where you both begin to say thing you may regret later.

7. Give In - Sometimes you cannot combine your thoughts to work together. Giving in to one another when you feel you have reached a dead-end with resolutions to what you are discussing, may be the only way out. Giving in is just another form of compromise that we all have to face at times. Don't be stubborn, open up.

8. Creativeness - Stay creative with your suggestions to solutions. When it comes to the common problems of financial woes, find some creative ideas to keep yourselves above water. Whether it is a side job, a yard sale, or even organizing a bake sale, you can always find creative ways to keep thelights on. Just keep them on the right side of the law, and you will find the money one way or another. If it is an issue specifically about your relationship, there are many creative ways to keep the love alive...wink, wink.

9. Humor - Always find the right moment to keep the atmosphere light. My husband is a pro at cutting through the thickness of negativity with a spurt of humor. Make your partner laugh, because if we don't laugh through trying times, then it may seem like an eternity before we reach the other side. A positive attitude is the key to making it through the challenges life puts in your path.

10. Take some "together" time - Find some time to just let it all go and enjoy each other's company. Whether you have found a solution to the problems you are dealing with or not, you need to put it all aside and spend some quality, problem-free, time together. Take a walk, go for a ride, watch a movie, or just cuddle. Remember why you chose to spend your life with the person beside you in the first place and go back to that feeling of contentment without all the reality that goes along with every relationship. Love each other completely.

Disciplinary Plan

What is Disciplinary Plan?
Disciplinary plan is an effective rule with Do's and Don'ts to achieve what you've planned.

I have been studying, working and doing things without knowing what I'm supposed to do. I have came out with an idea that is to set my own rules for myself. I believe success is based on how you self-discipline.

1. Wake up at 6.30am...

• I know this is quite impossible but as long as you've the perseverance to do so, all things are possible.

2. Gym every Monday...

• Monday is named as Blue Monday. Instead of feeling lazy to wake up, why not do the opposite by going to the gym on Monday morning? That will be great!

3. Spend at least 1 hour to study...

• Majority of us study few days before the exam. Instead of forcing all the information into your tiny little "CPU", spend average of "One" hour to study or to revise every day.

4. Get things done...

• Every one of us are given a task to be completed every day in our daily life, as a human's nature, we are so used to procrastinate. Let's change the culture and finish up everything ASAP.

5. Smile...

• Even though this is a disciplinary plan and it's going to be a tough one to follow the rules but make sure we don't forget to smile. A smile is the greatest gift that we reward ourselves. *cheese*

Brought to you by:

Sherleen Yen

Driving You Crazy

I read an article recently and it is worth the laughter to share with..

"My brother's work colleague was returning home one night. As he drove along, he passed through a green traffic light. Immediately, there was the flash of a camera. Rather puzzled, because his was the only vehicle on the road, he reversed and drove through the green traffic light again. There was another flash. Convinced that the camera must be faulty, he drove home. Several weeks later, he  received two fines for 

not wearing a seat-belt."

-Suzanne Borocin-

All Good Things

It's Sunday! People would probably sleep until 11am or 12pm but I woke up at 6.15am to get ready for Sunday service. Yes, I'm a Christian. I follow my mom to church every Sunday. I brought 2 bags today, 1 is my usual handbag and the other is my luggage bag (run-escape). Nah.. Was bringing my dress and heels for photoshoot with my partner in crime aka boyfriend, Sam and photographer, Cherry. Thanks girl for the photography session! We had loadsa fun! Love you! Here are some freshly captured photos.

For more pictures, please click on the link below:

CherryGraphy

After the photoshoot, we went Lot 10 for lunch and dropped Cherry at Pandan Jaya LRT station to pick up her car. Then, we went for movie, John Carter! I was offered 2 free movie tickets by MYC! Magazine but I had to let go because I have piles of assignments to be done. So, I went with my Uni-mates. It was an interesting movie. It's a MUST watch Disney production!

I love this dog monster, it's so adorable after watching the movie!

I would own one if there is such dogs on earth :)

Here's the trailer..

Enjoy :)

Johnnie Walker Malaysia

I was deliriously happy that Brenda, Gina and I received an invitation from Yu Jin, CEO of HealthPro Solutions Sdn Bhd to Johnnie Walker Black Circuit. It will be such a great experience and brilliant thanks for the invitation by Yu Jin and not to forget, the person in charge of the passes, Charles, Senior Brand Manager of Johnnie Walker.

History of Jonnie Walker:

In 1820, in a small town in Scotland, a young man named John Walker dreamed of blending the perfect whisky. In 1850, applying the same principle he'd learnt from blending tea for his grocer's shop to blending whisky, John walker began creating exclusive blends for valued customers who placed private orders in his shop. 'Walker's Highland Whiskies' were soon created and launched to much acclaim. The business prospered and John's reputation as an expert blender spread throughout the west of Scotland.

John Walker's aim was to create a flavor and quality that could be relied upon time and time again. In producing exceptional blends for his most prestigious customers, he firmly established his two dearly held blending values: Quality and Consistency. These values have underpinned Walker product developments ever since.

The founder's original values are rigorously applied to blend each Johnie Walker variant. For instance, every dram of Johnnie Walker Black Label you drink will have been blended from over 40 malt and grain whiskies, each of which has been matured for a minimum of 12 years, some considerably longer.

Furthermore, your drink will have been two decades in the planning and drawn from up to 700 casks from across the entire country of Scotland, each matured in a slightly different way. This is an extremely complicated process for the Master Blender, with satisfyingly complex results and big flavor for the whisky enthusiast.

From as far back as 1860, Johnnie Walker has been gaining a plethora of impressive awards paying tribute to the whisky's taste and consistency. Each individual variant is honored almost annually with gold, silver and bronze awards in the word's most prestigious drinks competitions. Johnnie Walker Black Label is the most awarded deluxe Scotch whisky in the world.

In 2005, Johnnie Walker teamed up with Formula 1 constructor team Vodafone McLaren Mercedes to spread awareness of the "Never Drink and Drive" message. Both teams have had a fantastic partnership, driven by the same desire to constantly innovate in the pursuit of success.

From humble beginnings over 190 years ago, today Johnnie Walker is the word's biggest Scotch whisky house and distributed across the globe for the enjoyment of millions. Where will he walk next?

Here's a video of Johnnie Walker Black Circuit Lounge, March 2012

Stay tune for the updates...

MYC! Magazine

Many people asked, what does MYC stand for, it is Malaysian Youth College. Magazine where you could find at McDonalds, Colleges, Universities, Starbucks and O'Briens. They provide internship to college and University students to gain experience in their field, determine if they

have an interest in a particular career and most importantly, create a network of contacts.

How did I find out about MYC!?

One fine day, when I was studying in a library, I received a call from MYC intern, Elaine. She is a friendly and outspoken young lady who is currently studying at TARC. I was chosen to be on their cover page model for July Issue 2011. So, I googled about MYC! and I find it interesting as they help young Malaysian students

to get their degree by listing the available study loans, aka Scholarships, which is what I personally would like to help the youngsters in future.

Below are some photos with MYC! Magazine, July Issue 2011:

Photographed by: Jason Ko, Founder of MYC! Magazine

Make Up and Hair by: HAIRcheezz??

Wardrobe by: VOIr

Last but not least, the interns who pampered me like a princess. xoxo

For more information, please click on the the link below:

MYC! MAGAZINE

Laughing Out Loud

Someone said Hie to me on facebook chat

I wanted to reply "Hey"

But I missed out the "He" and it became "Y" instead

The person offline immediately

Hahaha..

Tuesday, 20/12/2011

MiRRORs Ambassador Search 2011/2012 Pre-Activities

MiRRORs Ambassador Search 2011/2012

December,3 2011

Event: KeepSlim Workshop

Location: Taipan Subang Jaya

It was supposed to be a workshop but what we did was unprepared photoshoot without make up and there wasn't even a workshop for us. Most probably is because one of the staff were supposed to conduct the workshop wasn't in a good mood and that is why they canceled it bu

t thank God we had a good time bonding among the girls.

December 3, 2011

Event: Spartanz Class

Venue: BudyExpress Subang Avenue Mall

It was time to move our ass of. Time to burn some calories and time to learn some skills on how to maintain a good body shape. Especially girls who plan to go for Beauty Pageant. Not only that, it is good for health. A lean body shows how discipline a person is. Although it was

just a 30mins workout but it was tiring for most of us because we, princess don't hit the gym.

December 16, 2011

Event: Diet Nutrition Talk by Wong Yu Jin

Venue: Organic Recipe Restaurant

Didn't expect there were so many bloggers, media and photographers. We were expecting to eat breast meat and boiled egg but we were surprised that the organic food taste really good. It wasn't what we expected. I would love to visit their restaurant in future. The food is really healthy and it is all vegetarian.

December 17, 2011

Event: Meiko Cosmetics Workshop

Venue: Selayang Mall

We girls had loads of fun putting on make up by ourselves. It was a challenging task for me as normally I will only put on eyeliner and that is it. Fullstop! But I am glad that I won the prize for best make up. We even learned about what color code foundation suits our skin tone, types of eyeliner, types of lipsticks for sensitive skin, types of eyeliner for suitable events and et cetera.

Please click on the picture below for more photos

Pitbull Concert in Malaysia '11

PITBULL was at Surf Beach @ Sunway Lagoon

on the 1st of December, 2011

Sam and I was there to join the crowd

It was raining quite heavily before Mizz Nina came out

The concert was full of soaking wet fans of Pitbull

They are willing to get sick for Pitbull

They even sacrificed their iPhone and other gadgets just to watch Pitbull

Mizz Nina rockx the stage before everyone got hyped up for Mr. 305

Love the song she sang and dance

"What chu waiting for"

Is my favorite song, Love Yo Mizz Nina

We should have bought Party Zone instead of Regular Zone

I was quite disappointed at first

But Mr. World Wide's voice is too sexy till I almost melted on the Surf Beach

He can dance!

I love his real name

Armando Christian Perez

Suits his voice, 1 word to describe

SEXY!

Here is the link to a song he sang that night

PITBULL live in Malaysia 2011

Days out with ROCKers

Mom went Cameron Highland with colleagues

Grandma, the chef, went for vacation

Family members went out for dinner and movie

I went out with ROCKers for the night

Chilis was where Nicholas and Lilian has chosen

We had HTHT

Wonder what's HTHT?

It's Heart To Heart Talk, according to Jia Huei. LOL

We talked about our crushes

We shared our dirty little secrets

What happened in Chilis, stays in Chilis

Memories are in us, period!

It was a public holiday on the 28th Nov '11

We've decided to do nothing but to

Talk nonsense, be a stalker and most of all

SATISFY OUR APPETITE

Here are some of the pictures that I got it here and there

First time tasting Ying Ker Lou

It's a Chinese cuisine and many people were queuing up

We got the BEST place ever to stalk whoever passed by

This Beef Soup Pan mee taste really good

Perhaps, it could be the most yummiest soup I've ever tasted

Could have be more tastier if they change the pan mee to normal noodle

It's not too expensive, it's only RM16.90

Worth the taste of it

The peanut was great

Went Gardens with empty stomach

Had loadsa delicious food

I was satisfied

Alvin has been bugging me to try Moo Cow

And Here I AM!!!

Moo Cow Frozen Yogurt provides customers low fat yogurt

Girls! Don't hesitate! Give it a taste and you're gonna love this Froyo!

Moo~ Froyo rockx!

It can be compared with Crumbs!

A good dessert to be shared

After having a bowl of Beef Pan mee

I honestly can't finish a cup of Froyo

Andy, as my DBKL swallowed the leftover from me

Bravo!

~ Gong Cha ~

Sometimes I can't differentiate the taste between

Gong Cha, Orchado and Chatime

I'm not really a fan of bubble tea

They taste the same to me

Apparently, people are willing to queue for half an hour

Just to get a sip of it

Apart from Gong Cha!

Don't forget!

I'm still sick and here's a picture of me drinking 'Fu Cha'

Let's dance Cha Cha! hahaha..